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    December 14, 2008

    (This is probably my first post here on personal matter)

    I have neither forgotten my primary maths nor I am out of my senses – well, perhaps I am!

    For me, this new chapter has opened up late in life but then it has only proved the age old adage – Sabr ka fal meetha hota hai. And at the same time the unfolding of this chapter has led to a complete change of my impression about my fortunes and I am now sure that I do have a pretty good luck as I am sure very few men get so good a wife.

     

    But at the same time I am feeling terribly sorry that my fiancé is making so many adjustments (even before the nuptial knot is formally tied). Besides relocation, there is a certain amount of uncertainty about her career in terms of choice of role and department. However, what will hurt me the most is if this uncertainty spills over to her job as such i.e. change in company and/or her promotion which is deservingly due. I will hate to live the rest of my life under this regret on such an auspicious beginning of a new and ever lasting relationship. I pray that her career should only grow steeply after this relationship.

    A small part of my above concern stems from the fact that she has already proven lucky for me. I had been longing to relocate back to Delhi which materialized in a few days when I first started talking to her. With her saying yes to me, a lot of good things have already started happening in my family (though I still am skeptical on how long these good things will last). I wish her charm erases the spell of bad omen in my family. As for me, I got captivated by one of her charms - the charm of her eyes which had me captive when I first met her. The place where we first met has a name which ryhms with fury but looking at her eyes was so soothing that I’m sure it were her eyes that made me stand the fury, if there was any!

    I really don’t know the reasons for her saying yes to me with many other options available to her. But it is heartening for me to know that actually I have won her over a couple of competitors one of which was a very close win. But there is one very strong competitor whom I don’t think I can ever defeat as I just can’t do anything about that competitor except feel jealous of Salman Khan!

    Request you to pray for us both and bless us for a long life of togetherness full of contentment and happiness.

    Hi,

     

    This is my first write up here and as I start sharing my thoughts with all of you, let me first introduce myself.

     

    I am the lucky person, Tejbir has written about in the above lines.

     

    I always use to wonder how people decide to choose a person as his soulmate in just the first meet when they get together for lifetime through an arranged marriage. And I got my answer when Tej won my heart in our first meet by his simplicity and goodness.
    I don’t have words to express what made me take this decision in a few hours but yes there was something different about him. An unusual brightness and shine on a face saying I am the one for you!!!

     

    To tell you, this is his soft heart which is making him feel sorry that I may have to make some adjustments & compromise with my career to start a new life with him.

     

    “Tej, being with you is the top priority for me now. You have placed me at top of the world, I have never been so happy in life ever before. And don’t worry I know everything would work out well for us as God has already planned everything.”

     

    One more important thing that I would like to let you know is SALMAN stands no where in front of TEJ!!!!!!

     

    Request you to pray for both of us and bless us for a long life of togetherness full of contentment and happiness.

     

     

     

     

    I dedicate the following two songs to my fiance and the third one is her choice (even mine):

    Support Raj Thackerey

    November 14, 2008

    This is a wonderful mail circulating in favour of RAJ Thackerey have  a look
    We all should support Raj Thackeray and take his initiative ahead by doing more…

    1.        We should teach our kids that if he is second in class, don’t study harder.. just beat up                      the student coming first and throw him out of the school
    2.        
    Parliament should have only Delhiites as it is located in Delhi
    3.        
    Prime-minister, president and all other leaders should only be from Delhi
    4.
                   No Hindi movie should be made in Bombay. Only Marathi.
    5.  
         At every state border, buses, trains, flights should be stopped and staff changed to local men
    6.
            All Maharashtrians working abroad or in other states should be sent back as they are SNATCHING employment from Locals
    7.        
    Lord Shiv, Ganesha and Parvati should not be worshiped in our state as they belong to north (Himalayas)
    8.     Visits to Taj Mahal should be restricted to people from UP only
    9.
           Relief for farmers in Maharashtra should not come from centre because that is the money collected as Tax from whole of India, so why should it be given to someone in Maharashtra?
    10. Let’s support kashmiri Militants because they are right to killing and injuring innocent people for benifit of there state and community……
    11. Let’s throw all MNCs out of Maharashtra, why should they earn from us? We will open our own Maharashtra Microsoft, MH Pepsi and MH Marutis of the world .
    12.         Let’s stop using cellphones, emails, TV, foreign Movies and dramas. James Bond should speak Marathi
    13.        
    We should be ready to die hungry or buy food at 10 times higher price but should not accept imports from other states
    14.
           We should not allow any industry to be setup in Maharashtra because all machinery comes from outside
    15.        
    We should STOP using local trains… Trains are not manufactured by Marathi manoos and Railway Minister is a Bihari
    16.        
    Ensure that all our children are born, grow, live and die without ever stepping out of Maharashtra, then they will become true Marathi’s




    This mail should somehow reach Raj Thackrey so forward it to as many ppl as possible.
    This mail needs to be read by all Indians.
    So please help in this cause.Keep Forwarding.
    JAI MAHARASHTRA!

    Three centuries of guidance & current reflections

    October 18, 2008

    20th of this month will mark 300 years of guidance that my community – Sikhism, has been receiving from its present and eternal guru – Sri Guru Granth Sahib (SGGS).

    Yesterday in office, my colleagues were asking me questions and I was surprised to know that not much is known about SGGS outside my community. So I thought to put up some information on SGGS here. To keep it brief I am giving a few highlights that in my opinion would clear certain things which I gathered were unknown to my friends.

    1.       SGGS does not contain a single word of praise for any human, not even the ten human-gurus of the Sikhs. The 1430 pages of it praises only One God who does not belong to any one religion;

    2.       The SGGS has been compiled by the gurus themselves with each guru from 5th onwards added hymn compositions of previous guru(s) and therefore the book does not contain compositions of the last human-guru, Guru Gobind Singh;

    3.       SGGS contains compositions from six sikh human-gurus out of the 10 human-gurus;

    4.       SGGS also contains compositions from 15 hindu and 3 muslim saints and 17 others (I am not sure if they were Hindus or Muslims). It is pertinent to note that among these saints many were from the then considered lowly and untouchables like Kabir;

    5.       SGGS is a collection of poems/hymns and not a story of any person. Each hymn praises God and guides all to a life dedicated to One God. The hymns are in 31 ragas;

    6.       SGGS urges us to get free of superstitions like fasting (for pleasing gods), vaastu, offerings to the dead, etc.

    7.       SGGS’ central idea revolves around the three golden rules given by the founder of Sikhism, Guru Nanak Dev:

    a.       Naam Japo – Recite God’s name with breadth;

    b.      Kirat Karo – Work. Sanyas is forbidden in Sikhism. SGGS teaches one to work for livelihood;

    c.       Vand ke shakko – Share your earnings with men/women of God.

    Well, this was some information on SGGS. But I think it is pertinent that on this occasion of the three centuries of SGGS we look at the malpractices that have crept in the religion which are contra to the teachings of SGGS:

    1.       Its hurts me the most when I learn that Punjab tops the list in cases of female infanticide/foeticide in India. The homeland of SGGS, which asks to respect women, is the flag bearer of this grave sin;

    2.       The prime reason for sprouting of Sikhism was then prevailing rigid caste system. Sikh religion itself is mired in caste system of its own;

    3.       We are celebrating shraads of the very gurus who taught us and ordained us to refrain from such practices;

    4.       Sikhs are by default considered to be heavy consumers of alcohol and non-veg. SGGS advises against both. The advice is from health & effect on thought perspective and not from any superstition.

    5.       For many of us Sikhs the SGGS is nothing but a book they bow to and in my opinion bowing to a “book” makes the reverence akin to idol worshipping, which is not allowed as per SGGS teachings.

    6.       A large section of us believe in show-offs and are attached to worldly matters which again goes against the teachings of SGGS;

    I implore the Sikhs (including myself) and believers in SGGS to just not recite the SGGS but to follow the path of living life that it shows.

    Before I end, I tempted to produce some of my favorite lines from the SGGS:

    a.      Marne ki chinta nahin, jiwan ki nahin aas

    (Since I attached myself to you) neither do I fear death, nor do I desire life

    b.      Mann jeetey jagjeet

    Win your heart/desires and you will win the world

    c.       Moot paleet kapad hoye, de saboon laye oh toye || Pariye mat papan ke sung, oh topey navey ke rang

    Just as clothes that get dirty are washed with soap and water, in the same way thoughts/mind that is dirty can be washed by reciting God’s name and attaching oneself to the God

    d.      Jo tudh de, soyee hou payee

    Whatever You (God) give me, is all that I get and have

    e.       Sir tar tali gali meri aao

    Place your head on your palm and then come to me – is what God has to say to mankind. This implies that God will accept you only when you are unattached and ever ready for any sacrifice.

    You can read in more detail about SGGS here.

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