when 1+1 = 1
(This is probably my first post here on personal matter)
I have neither forgotten my primary maths nor I am out of my senses – well, perhaps I am!
For me, this new chapter has opened up late in life but then it has only proved the age old adage – Sabr ka fal meetha hota hai. And at the same time the unfolding of this chapter has led to a complete change of my impression about my fortunes and I am now sure that I do have a pretty good luck as I am sure very few men get so good a wife.
But at the same time I am feeling terribly sorry that my fiancé is making so many adjustments (even before the nuptial knot is formally tied). Besides relocation, there is a certain amount of uncertainty about her career in terms of choice of role and department. However, what will hurt me the most is if this uncertainty spills over to her job as such i.e. change in company and/or her promotion which is deservingly due. I will hate to live the rest of my life under this regret on such an auspicious beginning of a new and ever lasting relationship. I pray that her career should only grow steeply after this relationship.
A small part of my above concern stems from the fact that she has already proven lucky for me. I had been longing to relocate back to Delhi which materialized in a few days when I first started talking to her. With her saying yes to me, a lot of good things have already started happening in my family (though I still am skeptical on how long these good things will last). I wish her charm erases the spell of bad omen in my family. As for me, I got captivated by one of her charms - the charm of her eyes which had me captive when I first met her. The place where we first met has a name which ryhms with fury but looking at her eyes was so soothing that I’m sure it were her eyes that made me stand the fury, if there was any!
I really don’t know the reasons for her saying yes to me with many other options available to her. But it is heartening for me to know that actually I have won her over a couple of competitors one of which was a very close win. But there is one very strong competitor whom I don’t think I can ever defeat as I just can’t do anything about that competitor except feel jealous of Salman Khan!
Request you to pray for us both and bless us for a long life of togetherness full of contentment and happiness.
Hi,
This is my first write up here and as I start sharing my thoughts with all of you, let me first introduce myself.
I am the lucky person, Tejbir has written about in the above lines.
I always use to wonder how people decide to choose a person as his soulmate in just the first meet when they get together for lifetime through an arranged marriage. And I got my answer when Tej won my heart in our first meet by his simplicity and goodness.
I don’t have words to express what made me take this decision in a few hours but yes there was something different about him. An unusual brightness and shine on a face saying I am the one for you!!!
To tell you, this is his soft heart which is making him feel sorry that I may have to make some adjustments & compromise with my career to start a new life with him.
“Tej, being with you is the top priority for me now. You have placed me at top of the world, I have never been so happy in life ever before. And don’t worry I know everything would work out well for us as God has already planned everything.”
One more important thing that I would like to let you know is SALMAN stands no where in front of TEJ!!!!!!
Request you to pray for both of us and bless us for a long life of togetherness full of contentment and happiness.
I dedicate the following two songs to my fiance and the third one is her choice (even mine):
nice one…may both of you be happy…forever…
here is something to think about…
A = A
Squaring both sides,
(A)^2 = (A)^2 [A squared equals A squared]
Subtracting A squared from both sides,
(A)^2 - (A)^2 = (A)^2 - (A)^2
Taking A common on left & using formula on right side,
A(A-A) = (A-A)(A+A)
Canceling out (A-A) from both sides,
A = A + A
1 = 1 + 1
2 = 2 + 2
3 = 3 + 3
….
Comment by utp — December 21, 2008 @ 4:17 pm
Hi Both
I came here after a long time…and what a pleasant surprise it is.
May you have wonderful life together!
Anj
Comment by MoodsAndcolors — December 23, 2008 @ 3:43 pm
How sweet… So the econofreak has a heart too!
All the best you two! God Bless…
P.S. My comment’s not showing up!
Comment by Parul — January 5, 2009 @ 9:29 am
ohkk…. got it now! Sorry for the flood before…
Comment by Parul — January 5, 2009 @ 4:56 pm
Hi Tej Salman Singh:
Hearty Congrats to you buddy!
Ab humara kya hoga
This is awesome news!!!
Have been trying to reach you. Mail me your new contact no’s on IIM id.
All the best for the new and best phase of life!
Cheers
-Arvind
Comment by Arvind Nahata — February 6, 2009 @ 5:14 am
’sbeen AGES!
Comment by Parul — March 17, 2009 @ 4:45 pm
Oye, tujhe kaise ladki ne pasand kar liya?
Congrats boss!! Have a good time
Comment by abyb — April 27, 2009 @ 4:47 pm
It’s so goo d to read these lines and believe me it will all turn good….even I had my own share of concerns about my career shift/relocation/ arranged marriage and a decision in a fraction of hours…..but it just happens! Love can’t be generated as it happens! And a healthy relationship is always co-created.
So all my good wishes to the lovely duo (I could see you guys being lovely through the words)…..
Wishes for a Happy & Forever Bonding!
God Bless. Keep Smiling
Comment by Jigyasa — May 15, 2009 @ 5:18 am
WRITE!!!
Comment by Parul — June 6, 2009 @ 2:43 pm
Not a single post this year! Do you realize that??
Comment by parul — July 8, 2009 @ 5:15 am
A very Happy Diwali to you too!
Comment by Parul — October 17, 2009 @ 9:20 am